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April 06 Is there real love?Again,, it has been a long time since my last blog, i feel that this message has been repeated a lot. Forgive me if that is the case.
A friend of mine asked me the other day a question, and that question was "Is there genuine love, anythng near to the novels we read?"...I was bewildered by this question, and I stood speechless with deep thought in order to answer this hard question.
After a few moments I said, there is no such things as the perfect love displayed in novels or even movies or for some in their imagination. The reason would be in my opinion, God is only perfect, that being said a person can't be perfect or in a sense find the perfect person. In my opinion, a person meets his\her wife\husband at some stage of his life might not be the person he\she imagined or according to the qualities set, but for some unforsee\able reason you know that this person is the person you want to share the rest of your life with. This person would make you feel good about yourself, even though you have plenty of bad traits or fears and insecrities but they all fade away when you are with him\her. I would say you found your match if you reached a stage with him\her that you can anticipate his\her reaction, knows the food he\she likes, find yourself thinking of that person without wanting to, feel that your life has no meaning without that person, waiting for the moment you meet that person, you would sacrifice everything you have even yourself for that person, and for people who reached a much deeper stage in their relationship "They can see their unborn children with them". Again it isn't a must to have\feel all these stuff with your partner, but I guess most of them should be met.
I believe there is real love in this world, people have lost faith in searching for real love because some people abused the work and used it for unlawful use and with the passing of time has lost its full meaning and the feel of it that people started taking it for granted.
Finally, I hope each person reading this blog will find the love of their life. February 24 Distorted ThoughtsIt has been ages since my last blog … Were you ever fascinated with the concept of fighting for something that greater than yourself, if you watched “the man in the iron mask” you would have heard that phrase. As for me I have liked this concept, I believe that every person must have a goal that is divine. Everything in life was done or created for a purpose where each person has a role that they must play till their role end. One of the descriptions of life is that “Life is a big theatre, and we are but mere actors in the play where each actor has a role to play”. It doesn’t matter how you see life or what you believe, for me it takes a man to stand up for what he believes and fight and protect all that is dear to him. These days it is very rare to see actions that are selfless, where a person renders a service without waiting for a reward for his services. The time where people lived for honour and protecting the weak, stood up for just causes has been long gone. It has been said that the dark ages is history, if that is true then I would say history is repeating itself. I believe the peak of reliving the dark ages is still upon us and this is but a taste of it. Many have died fighting for values and principles and risked everything in either reaching that goal or protecting it, have it be freedom, equality, tyranny, unjustness…etc. One must set a goal that isn’t material, whatever your belief is, the end of your life is in death. The question you should ask yourself now is, when that day comes, can you say that you were satisfied with your life? Your achievements? Were your interests well placed? Was the goal you were working and fighting for to reach all your life was goal u should having pursuing? What I do believe in is that there are so many unknown things in life, so many unsolved mysteries. Don’t let material things take over your thoughts and life. Let there always be a parallel road to the path you are taking where beliefs and values and love and a search for something that would fulfill your souls desires. May 14 A song for a lover!I would like to share these lyrics for a song I consider one of the best love\romantic song ever done. The song is called "When I see you smile" for a band called "Bad English"...here are the lyrics:
Sometimes I wonder How I'd ever make it through, Through this world without having you I just wouldn't have a clue 'Cause sometimes it seems Like this world's closing in on me, And there's no way of breaking free And then I see you reach for me Sometimes I wanna give up I wanna give in, I wanna quit the fight And then I see you, baby And everything's alright, everything's alright When I see you smile I can face the world, oh oh, you know I can do anything When I see you smile I see a ray of light, oh oh, I see it shining right through the rain When I see you smile Oh yeah, baby when I see you smile at me Baby there's nothing in this world that could ever do What a touch of your hand can do It's like nothing that I ever knew And when the rain is falling I don't feel it, 'cause you're here with me now And one look at you baby Is all I'll ever need, you're all I'll ever need Chorus Sometimes I wanna give up I wanna give in, I wanna quit the fight And then I see you baby And everything's alright, everything's alright So right... March 23 Future...Funny!Future,,,,a thing that is unforseable, hence frightening and full of surprises.
How many times have you planned for something to do and later on something came up or a certain circumstance prevented you from achieving\doing that? I have faced that dilemma so many times that i got used to it, but as much you tell yourself that nothing will happen as u predict yet we always are in state of planning for the future so we could be ready for some events that might occur.
as days pass by, one realises that nothing is static. There is no constant state of happines or sadness, one might have a day of happiness and self satisfaction and achievements, and also a week of disaster, and not particularly in that order. you can even have a 23 pleasant hours and an hour that might hold news that could change you. at any case, in general life isn't getting easier, i see it getting darker and darker each day as we approach a stage where we have become solely dependant on technology and fuel, where love have become a rare currency, even an honest person seems to be an impossible quest to find, where family ties fade, no religion or law that could bind a person not swerve to sin, human gread to bettter oneself no matter the cost or means.
After saying all that, we keep trying to be optimistic that things will get better and that all the wrong things in the world will cease to exist and that we could at last see the light in the end of this dark tunnel.
In the end, we shall always plan for the future because we are scared of its vagueness and it's surprises whether they were good or bad. February 11 Valentine's Day!It has been a long time since i last wrote a blog, hasn't it?
Well this time's topic, i never thought i would ever talk or write about but then again nothing that i had experienced for the past years were anticipated or according to plan.
Valentine's day...the day that celebrates love and people in love. It is said that Valentine's day is named after two martyrs both named Valentine(This is one of many stories). Well at any case in my opinion it is nice that there is a day that lovers can celebrate their love and affection towards each other but not to make it the only day a person shoes his affection and love. I believe that lovers should always show their love and express it to each other whenever they like and desire. Many of you reading this blog are thinking, this is all weird coming from me:p well my answer would be that times change.
I hope everyone finds their Valentine soon. December 29 It is Something Else!Hi everyone once again,,,,it has been some time since i wrote my last blog...but i have been busy, very busy:p
the past period i have been busy in two things mainly,,,work and i met a lady. Work has been hectic because the project i was on was facing some problems as we couldn't meet the deadline so we have been working with lots of pressure. I can say now that we have reached a very good position in the project as we have solved most of the problems and we have reached a stage where we can finally release the application for the client to start selling.
Concerning the lady that i met, well she is the loveliest person you can ever meet. It is just as though she had dropped from the heavens to save me from the hell i have been living. Have you wished you could meet some1 that understands you and thinks like you in every matter and cherishes you in every way and makes you feel so special?? I finally met that person.
Now that we are steps from celebrating the birth of a new year,,,one reflects on year 2006,,,it has been an interesting year for me,,,,i guess i can say that it has been one of the best years. i hope next year would be better as i will be having new endeavours and challenges awaiting. November 09 1st requested blog!as i have mentioned in my previous blog, i will also write blogs upon the request. this blog is gonna be about life changing moments that could be either serious or funny that changed ur life or just taught you smth about urself.
I dunno where to start,,,i have experienced a lot of situations that have made an impact upon myself. my friendships throughout the years have made a direct impact upon me, i have learnt many things about myself, character wise. For instance i always took anything from my friends however bad it was and forgave them very easily because i didn't have a big number of friends so i always hung on to the ones i had tightly, but now i am more carefree because i have been taken for granted many times too much. One of the things i have learnt is to be content of what i am and the things i am capable of and not to pity myself for things i have no control over. It doesn't mean that i don't try to improve things that need improving, i'll just say that i have a more realistic mind than before.
Death taught me a lot,,,when my grandfather passed away, my family was in total chaos, things were going downhill, but somehow we pulled things together with the help of our friends. i still miss my grandfather who was a great man.
Work taught me a thing or 2,,,i have seen how there are still people in the world that u can depend on and rely on in times of need or aid, in short MEN...i will cherish their friendship forever.
The many hours that i spent alone taught me how to be patient in many things,the enjoyment of being in a state of harmony, and after all these years it has taught me the value of friends and ppl around u who care about u.
All in all...many things contributed in making the man i am today, as many of u reading this blog. November 07 Readers Choice!!!hi every1,,,,
I got an idea that i think would be very original...it's called readers choice.
Yes guys you suggest the topic u'd like me to talk about, and i'll talk about it in the next blog. but it shouldn't be a topic i talked about previously...
so ppl this ur chance... October 20 Irony!!Life is a bitch in so many ways most of the times and SOME times it is very giving,,,
How often have you felt that things were going your way and that u were happy and then suddenly u get some disturbing news or something bad happens to you that just fucks up everything?? Well it happenned with me lots of times, and not in that particular order.
That is the irony of life, u can have both extremes without any prior indications, there is proverb that says "the hit that doesn't kill you strengthens you" which is very true.
Well at any case if there wasn't pain u wouldn't appreciate\know joy!!! September 13 Do u judge a book by it's cover!!do u judge a book by its cover? do u have some guidlines for meeting new ppl?
well as for me, i have met so many ppl in my life that come from different backgrounds and even different ethinticity, and many with different mentalities and thinking and even religion. I believe that every1 has some standard or first impression that controls a person to meet new ppl or just stay away, but life has taught me never to rely on such instincts or impressions. Many of the people i know today i might have once judged wrongly or maybe have had a bad impression, but when i came to know them better they were either totally different than wat i thought initially or just as i thought. I am happy i know the people i know today, and specially the people i met that i had a bad impression or just thought wrongly of them whom in the end i ended up being strong friends with them and proved to be reliable and gr8 friends.
One example of 1st time impressions that happenned to me was due to my long hair....many ppl used to come to me and say that for sure u listen to rock and metal. It is true that i listen to such music, but i didn't grow my hair becoz of that. I grew my hair to the length it is now,becoz i have soft hair that when it is short it only works they way i wany with massive loads of gel,no to mention the dandraft that it caused me, so i decided to grow my hair and end the gel era. which turned out to be ok, i like it the way it is. the point of my example was that many people thing the people with long hair listen to rock and metal when in fact many don't.
All in all never judge people on your first impression and never rely on it with ur relati9onship with ppl coz u might realise that that person was the exact opposite and that u might have been gr8 friends. August 07 Growing up!!Have you ever thought of the way way you were raised up by ur parents!!! do u think it was the proper way or they could have done a better job?do u think they had better options in some actions that they chose to do otherwise?have they listenened to ur problems and tried to be ur friend other than being ur parents for a while?
well for some time i have resented my parents for the way they raised me where i always felt left out of everything and treated sometimes with hatred and at time with love.but one thing i keep thinking about is how do ppl treat their kids in the early stages. i believe that all parents tend to spank their kids or maybe deprive them from things so that they impose descipline (i call it fear) and respect from their kids when they are toddlers or even when they are from 1-7 years. this bihaviour causes a dilemma for me, because we keep saying that we are civilised and hitting is inhumane, but in the end when u get to be a parent there is no other way for ur child to listen to u without using those ways.have u ever thought how ur life would be if ur parents left you to urself without pressuring u to their religion, or their belief of right and wrong without using some force to imply it upon u?? i dunno how things would be, but i can say one thing no one can agree on a definition on wat is right and wat is wrong because it is relative from one person to another and from one country to another or even from one continent to another!!!
i believe that that each parent tries to teach their kids their beliefs and pass them to their kids to the best of their ability and knowledge,in the end the children have the choice one way or another to follow them and choose another way of life in in some period of their lives. whether you choose to believe in darwin's theory that we were once apes before we evolved to human being or not, i believe the fact we use force to teach our children to do as we see fit is inhumane although i have no other suggestions to replace that way,,,which leads me to the conclusion if the method is inhumane then it must some animal instinct :D:P
in the end it is true that raising a child is one of the most difficult jobs on earth,if not the hardest. Parents teach their children the principals and their sense of right and wrong when raising a child and along the way either the childen see eye to eye with their parents or choose their own way of thinking! August 01 Dan Brown,,,the da vinci code!Dan brown and the da vinci code have been the main concern of people and the main issue they would talk about for some time now, it is difficult to find a person that hasn't read the book these days. From it's popualrity it has been translated to the arabic language in jordan!!!!!
One can't help to think about some questions when thinking of his Dan Brown's books, why does Dan brown write such provocative novels with such contraversial issues that would stir the rage of some groups of people that wouldn't welcome the ideas presented in his books? What does he believe in?y does he keep attacking the Vatican?Does he present true facts concerning historical information and explanations to some symbols and rituals and information about the christian faith and Mary Magdalen?
well the answer to the 1st question is very simple, he writes such books because it sells!!! Dan Brown is a clever writer he knows how attract the public with his books and the way he writes and presents his ideas would keep you hooked and thrilled to the last page to know the conclusion. The main idea here is that the more people talk about a book the more rage and talk it generates the more people would be intrigued to know about the book and its contents the more the author gets popular and the books get sold crazily.Throughout the the years it has been proven that books that are contraversial and stir up some issues that the public would make a fuss over have been the best selling books hitting the roof with the number of copies sold.
I don't think any1 can answer the 2nd and 3rd question, i don't think he knows what he believes in. One thing is clear in his last 2 novels (Angels & Demons and The Da Vinci Code) his deslike and hatred if i may on the vatican and the papacy residing there. He even showed his deslike over the Opus Dei. In the end it is clear to the reader that Dan Brown believes that Christians have been fooled, and the Christ has done more than die on the cross for the benefit of humanity he also got married and has children from his blood and his living descendants are among us somewhere. one can also deduce, that he hates the vatican and papacy and perceives them as bad people and would go to gr8 lengths and means even if it meant death and killing in the name christianity as he believes if it threatens their interest or the christian faith.
The last question is tricky and hard to answer.Many explanations and facts of the issues he talks about are true and some of them proven scientifically, and other issues are based over strong speculations that we can't can't say are true or wrong 100%. In the end, you have the choice to agree with his thoughts or disagree depending on your beliefs.But i can say one thing, u can't deny that the way he presents his facts and the way teh issues he brings up would get you to agree with him totally but as i said in the end it depends on wat u believe.
All in all, i have enjoyed reading his novels, i have gained some valuable information and enjoyed the journey he had put me through in the books specially with Robert Langdon.Finally, await Dan Brown's coming book that would be talking about a Freemasonry;) July 31 Life stages!!how many of u sat down and started to think about the stages they have been through in life till they reached to where they are in this moment of time or life???
Well i often do have these kind of thoughts on how i passed these stages and how i evolved mentally or physically or even the way i think concerning some issues. i have found out that my principals have never changed and even my purpose and goal in life never changed, but i guess what changed was my character throughout the years but not as a whole.
well during the past years many things happenned that i have learnt from, lost some friend, got new friends, strengthened some existing friendships, understood my Father a lot better, death of my grandfather, getting employed, my dealing with new people with new traditions,getting bummed from some girls,learnt some things about myself from some friends. All of these incidents and situations i have gained new knowledge and experiences that i have learnt from about life and myself.
I believe each person should from to time sit down and think about wat has been done and not done and in wat ways has he\she evolved.
In the end one hopes to have evolved to the best... July 25 Friendship....Wat is true friendship? Who r ur friends?
there isn't a true definition to describe the meaning of friendship,,,,but i think most of u reading this blog would agree with me that friendship is all about mutual honesty,trustworthiness,offering ur shoulder to ur friend, listen to ur friend's troubles and try to solve them, stand by ur friend when he is in need and also in his joy, anticipate ur responses before u make them, cheers u up when u r feeling down...i think that this sums it up for me.
If you have a friend with such qualities you should consider urself very fortuante and blessed, because in these times it is very hard to find such friends.
i am fortunate to have such friends in my life that i consider them as brothers and sisters.
It is said that true friends emerge or are found for a person for the times of need "a friend in need, is a friend indeed", but i say "a friend is a friend whenever and whatever the circumstance" July 24 WAR...Wat is it good for...Absolutely nothing!!What does the title of my blog remind you of??? Well for those of you who watched a movie called "'Rush Hour", u'd remember this part very vividly :d
WAR...y do wars occur? for many reasons. Either because of religious differences, greadiness, satisfying one's ego (one's own glory), their right to live, and sometimes for one's own beliefs. but all in all one constantly asks one's self, what have we gained?? the plain and simple answer is NOTHING!!! the loss of innocent life is inevitable and even the loss of soldiers to useless causes grief and sorrow to my heart. there was a time when ppl used to fight each other to expand territories and join forces under the notion that when one conquers the world there would be peace and harmony under one leadership...but the fact of the matter is that the world is vast and big, there is no way the world would unite because we r humans and there would always be evil in the world to prevent that.
All in all wars are inevitable and wil always occur, human race will always remain as cain and abel until the day of judgement and as i would say "you can't appreciate the meaning of peace until u have tasted the bitterness of war" July 14 being hot or having a nice personalitty or being wealthy!!!What do u look for in your partner??? is it her\his beautifull body or his\her rich personalitty or the amount of money he\she got in the bank??? is there a standard that each person compares their partner to??
to answer the 1st question,,,i'll have to answer, that every person must have some thoughts or visualisation of the partner they'd like to have,,, but in reality, u'd be very fortunate if u find 80% of wat want in ur partner. there no such person that will fit all the requirements and if such a person exists then the percentage u'd meet that person is very minimal near to ZERO!! the main thing these days is to search for a woman that loves and both of u have an understanding of each other to face the endeavours of life.
the 2nd question is tricky....mmm...if i had to answer the question i'd say "beauty lies in the heart, mind, and soul" anything is else is irrelevant. keeping in mind my answer to the 1st question, every person has their own perspective of the person of their dreams concerning wealth, character, beauty. i believe that each person should search for a partner that is smart, well spoken, intelligent that can talk to u with important stuff,,,kind at heart and passionate than would feel with when u r down and cheer u up, or share u r happiness when u r happy and love you the way u r...spiritual, so she could also guide you through the miseries of life to see the light.
the answer to third question lies in the combined answers of the 1st 2 question.
In the end i hope eveybody finds their 2nd half, that would complete them, if u can't find that person, nothing is wrong with being single for the rest of ur life:P:P July 08 Engagements....Weddings!in the past year or so i have seen so many people either getting engaged or married....it was so weird i haven't seen so many engagements before in my life,,,but sooner or later one must make the mistake of getting married. But putting all wat have said aside, i believe every person needs another person to share their sorrows and joy in this life, coz it seems that life promises more sorrow than joy. one fact concerning marriages is true, there is no 100 percent happy marriages.because even if u found the person that u wanted with the qualities u were looking for, one way or another u would both reach to disagreement one day, because simply it is natural. in short i believe in this motto "there is no joy without pain". so for those who r married or for those who are getting married, i got one thing to say to u........CHOOSE WISELY:p May 30 WORLD CUP!!Yes, it is that time again when people go crazy in the globe:D
World Cup...the biggest event in football that occurs every 4 years. everybody start preparing for the event a month prior,,,,buying t-shirts and flags corresponding to the teams they will be cheering for. For some families it is the time when everyone meet to see each other:d
For people who love the sport it is a big thing, because in the world all the players are supposed to be the best players in the world chosen for each team, so get to see all of them one big tournament. everything feels different in the world cup, the goal is more important and the win is more important, it is the utmost truimph for each player to score in the world cup because their names will be remembered for years to come.
All in all i am fan of Argentina, and as a result my main concern is our eternal rival Brazil who i must admit have a strong team as always with their strength of technique and trickery. BUT ARGENTINA WILL PREVAIL:p
VIVA ARGENTINA!!!! Death!!!I am sure that some ppl are startled by the title that i have chosen,,,well i think that the title would be justified once u read the blog.
Death, wat is death?? well wat everyone seems to agree on is that it is the time when the soul ascends to its maker where judgement occurs and either ur eternal end would be with Him in Heaven or the eternal end of suffering in the flames of Hell with the devil.
I am skeptical concerning those issues,,,but what is important is that no one can run away or hide from it, it is the undeniable end to each person. Some people die and no one remembers, and some people will remain in the minds of many people for some trait or quality they had while they were among the living. I remember when my grandfather passed away before...mmm...shit it has been 11 years now, anyways at the time he was the most important person in my life, i learnt a lot from him with the time i had with him and even the time after he died. My father too is the same kind of person that when he passes away after a long time i hope will leave a big space in my life, although for the most time of my life i was in constant dissagreement with him in most issues when finally one day i woke up to myself and found out that i was wrong all the time and he was always right.his friends would also agree to wat i am saying. in the end i wish i could be half of the man my father and grandfather are, i would be a happy man.
All in all, i wish that when my time comes that ppl would remember me in a good way and that i was able to make an impact in their life.
N.B: This blog is dedicated to my friend who lost some1 dear to her sunday 21st,2006 and i couldn't be there for her:( March 28 DRIVING!!!Driving....a concept that is impossible to happen jordan. People do everything but drive, it is like a horror show when u r on the road.
I have been postponing to get the driving licence for a long time now...but due to my job conditions it was obligatory for me to get it. Driving in Jordan is impossible, and that includes all sexes.
lets start with females...in jordan i haven't seen a good female driver yet, it is a lifelong dream of every1.No offence, but the truth must be said. of course there are some extraordinary cases but mostly they are bad drivers here in Jordan.
Males...they are good drivers, not becoz i am biased, but it is the truth. But thing that happens, guys like to show off, or lets say choose to be assholes on the road although they know wat is right.
having said all that, i have got the licence recently, so wen i do get a car........BEWARE:d
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