do u judge a book by its cover?  do u have some guidlines for meeting new ppl?

 

well as for me, i have met so many ppl in my life that come from different backgrounds and even different ethinticity, and many with different mentalities and thinking and even religion. I believe that every1 has some standard or first impression that controls a person to meet new ppl or just stay away, but life has taught me never to rely on such instincts or impressions. Many of the people i know today i might have once judged wrongly or maybe have had a bad impression, but when i came to know them better they were either totally different than wat i thought initially or just as i thought. I am happy i know the people i know today, and specially the people i met that i had a bad impression or just thought wrongly of them whom in the end i ended up being strong friends with them and proved to be reliable and gr8 friends.

 

One example of 1st time impressions that happenned to me was due to my long hair....many ppl used to come to me and say that for sure u listen to rock and metal. It is true that i listen to such music, but i didn't grow my hair becoz of that. I grew my hair to the length it is now,becoz i have soft hair that when it is short it only works they way i wany with massive loads of gel,no to mention the dandraft that it caused me, so i decided to grow my hair and end the gel era. which turned out to be ok, i like it the way it is. the point of my example was that many people thing the people with long hair listen to rock and metal when in fact many don't.

 

All in all never judge people on your first impression and never rely on it with ur relati9onship with ppl coz u might realise that that person was the exact opposite and that u might have been gr8 friends.