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July 31 Life stages!!how many of u sat down and started to think about the stages they have been through in life till they reached to where they are in this moment of time or life???
Well i often do have these kind of thoughts on how i passed these stages and how i evolved mentally or physically or even the way i think concerning some issues. i have found out that my principals have never changed and even my purpose and goal in life never changed, but i guess what changed was my character throughout the years but not as a whole.
well during the past years many things happenned that i have learnt from, lost some friend, got new friends, strengthened some existing friendships, understood my Father a lot better, death of my grandfather, getting employed, my dealing with new people with new traditions,getting bummed from some girls,learnt some things about myself from some friends. All of these incidents and situations i have gained new knowledge and experiences that i have learnt from about life and myself.
I believe each person should from to time sit down and think about wat has been done and not done and in wat ways has he\she evolved.
In the end one hopes to have evolved to the best... July 25 Friendship....Wat is true friendship? Who r ur friends?
there isn't a true definition to describe the meaning of friendship,,,,but i think most of u reading this blog would agree with me that friendship is all about mutual honesty,trustworthiness,offering ur shoulder to ur friend, listen to ur friend's troubles and try to solve them, stand by ur friend when he is in need and also in his joy, anticipate ur responses before u make them, cheers u up when u r feeling down...i think that this sums it up for me.
If you have a friend with such qualities you should consider urself very fortuante and blessed, because in these times it is very hard to find such friends.
i am fortunate to have such friends in my life that i consider them as brothers and sisters.
It is said that true friends emerge or are found for a person for the times of need "a friend in need, is a friend indeed", but i say "a friend is a friend whenever and whatever the circumstance" July 24 WAR...Wat is it good for...Absolutely nothing!!What does the title of my blog remind you of??? Well for those of you who watched a movie called "'Rush Hour", u'd remember this part very vividly :d
WAR...y do wars occur? for many reasons. Either because of religious differences, greadiness, satisfying one's ego (one's own glory), their right to live, and sometimes for one's own beliefs. but all in all one constantly asks one's self, what have we gained?? the plain and simple answer is NOTHING!!! the loss of innocent life is inevitable and even the loss of soldiers to useless causes grief and sorrow to my heart. there was a time when ppl used to fight each other to expand territories and join forces under the notion that when one conquers the world there would be peace and harmony under one leadership...but the fact of the matter is that the world is vast and big, there is no way the world would unite because we r humans and there would always be evil in the world to prevent that.
All in all wars are inevitable and wil always occur, human race will always remain as cain and abel until the day of judgement and as i would say "you can't appreciate the meaning of peace until u have tasted the bitterness of war" July 14 being hot or having a nice personalitty or being wealthy!!!What do u look for in your partner??? is it her\his beautifull body or his\her rich personalitty or the amount of money he\she got in the bank??? is there a standard that each person compares their partner to??
to answer the 1st question,,,i'll have to answer, that every person must have some thoughts or visualisation of the partner they'd like to have,,, but in reality, u'd be very fortunate if u find 80% of wat want in ur partner. there no such person that will fit all the requirements and if such a person exists then the percentage u'd meet that person is very minimal near to ZERO!! the main thing these days is to search for a woman that loves and both of u have an understanding of each other to face the endeavours of life.
the 2nd question is tricky....mmm...if i had to answer the question i'd say "beauty lies in the heart, mind, and soul" anything is else is irrelevant. keeping in mind my answer to the 1st question, every person has their own perspective of the person of their dreams concerning wealth, character, beauty. i believe that each person should search for a partner that is smart, well spoken, intelligent that can talk to u with important stuff,,,kind at heart and passionate than would feel with when u r down and cheer u up, or share u r happiness when u r happy and love you the way u r...spiritual, so she could also guide you through the miseries of life to see the light.
the answer to third question lies in the combined answers of the 1st 2 question.
In the end i hope eveybody finds their 2nd half, that would complete them, if u can't find that person, nothing is wrong with being single for the rest of ur life:P:P July 08 Engagements....Weddings!in the past year or so i have seen so many people either getting engaged or married....it was so weird i haven't seen so many engagements before in my life,,,but sooner or later one must make the mistake of getting married. But putting all wat have said aside, i believe every person needs another person to share their sorrows and joy in this life, coz it seems that life promises more sorrow than joy. one fact concerning marriages is true, there is no 100 percent happy marriages.because even if u found the person that u wanted with the qualities u were looking for, one way or another u would both reach to disagreement one day, because simply it is natural. in short i believe in this motto "there is no joy without pain". so for those who r married or for those who are getting married, i got one thing to say to u........CHOOSE WISELY:p |
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