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    April 06

    Is there real love?

    Again,, it has been a long time since my last blog, i feel that this message has been repeated a lot. Forgive me if that is the case.

     

    A friend of mine asked me the other day a question, and that question was "Is there genuine love, anythng near to the novels we read?"...I was bewildered by this question, and I stood speechless with deep thought in order to answer this hard question.

     

    After a few moments I said, there is no such things as the perfect love displayed in novels or even movies or for some in their imagination. The reason would be in my opinion, God is only perfect, that being said a person can't be perfect or in a sense find the perfect person. In my opinion, a person meets his\her wife\husband at some stage of his life might not be the person he\she imagined or according to the qualities set, but for some unforsee\able reason you know that this person is the person you want to share the rest of your life with. This person would make you feel good about yourself, even though you have plenty of bad traits or fears and insecrities but they all fade away when you are with him\her. I would say you found your match if you reached a stage with him\her that you can anticipate his\her reaction, knows the food he\she likes, find yourself thinking of that person without wanting to, feel that your life has no meaning without that person, waiting for the moment you meet that person, you would sacrifice everything you have even yourself for that person, and for people who reached a much deeper stage in their relationship "They can see their unborn children with them". Again it isn't a must to have\feel all these stuff with your partner, but I guess most of them should be met.

     

    I believe there is real love in this world, people have lost faith in searching for real love because some people abused the work and used it for unlawful use and with the passing of time has lost its full meaning and the feel of it that people started taking it for granted.

     

    Finally, I hope each person reading this blog will find the love of their life.